Somatization of their aggressions result in chronic health problems as they vindicate themselves by "falling apart" and burdening others. Able to excuse and rationalize what they do since they feel abused and victimized by others and are bitterly resentful and angry. Domineering and coercive: feel entitled to get anything they want from others: the repayment of old debts, money, sexual favors. Extremely self-deceptive about their motives and how aggressive and/or selfish their behavior is. Undermine people, making belittling, disparaging remarks. Abuse food and medication to "stuff feelings" and get sympathy. Unhealthy: Can be manipulative and self-serving, instilling guilt by telling others how much they owe them and make them suffer. Hypochondria, becoming a "martyr" for others. Increasingly self-important and self-satisfied, feel they are indispensable, although they overrate their efforts in others' behalf. Enveloping and possessive: the codependent, self-sacrificial person who cannot do enough for others - wearing themselves out for everyone, creating needs for themselves to fulfill. Want others to depend on them: give, but expect a return: send double messages. Become overly intimate and intrusive: they need to be needed, so they hover, meddle, and control in the name of love. Love their supreme value, and they talk about it constantly. Give seductive attention: approval, "strokes," flattery. Feel it is a privilege to be in their lives of others.Īverage: Want to be closer to others, so start "people pleasing", becoming overly friendly, emotionally demonstrative, and full of "good intentions" about everything. Service is important, but takes care of self too: they are nurturing, generous, and giving - a truly loving person.Īt Their Best: Become deeply unselfish, humble, and altruistic: giving unconditional love to self and others. Encouraging and appreciative, able to see the good in others. Thoughtful, warm-hearted, forgiving and sincere. Healthy: Empathetic, compassionate, feeling for others. (The Histrionic Personality Disorder and Factitious Disorder)īasic Fear: Of being unwanted, unworthy of being lovedĮnneagram Two with a Three-Wing: "The Host/Hostess" Generous, Demonstrative, People-Pleasing, and Possessive
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